Posted by: mpule | 2008/07/24

friend cant stop crying

she locks herself in the office and cries and the same is happening at her flat.

she is currently going out with guy from tanzania and last week she received some bad news. the friend to the tanzanian guy told her that the guy is married.

she feels so betrayed and is asking how can her boyfriend lie to her. it is now the 8month that they are together.

i was always suspicious about her boyfriend, cos on weekends he is not available and had all sorts of excuses.

now she wants me to help track down the wife so that she can tell her the whole story. is this worth it?

the boyfriend was always telling her that he lives with his daughter only and that him and the mum are not together anymore. and that he left her in tanzania.

and she never visited him because the boyfriend said it would not be good for the daughter, since she is still small (10yrs). so they only met at public places.

she is determined to hire a private investigator to help. how do i support her?

she tells me the boyfriend is overseas on work matters for the week.

if i see him, i just give him a " clap"  on his face

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Why should she expect you to track down anyone's wife ? If she wants to contact his wife, she'd be entitled to do so. And shouldn't women be cautious about forming relationships with men from other countries unless they can be sure they are not married already ? YOu should leave him alone, and let her sort out the problem she chose to get into

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Posted by: monitor | 2008/07/25

anon you have a snaaks and naar way of answering ppl, do u think ure the only person that has problems with their boyfreins? no problem i less thatn the other, shud we also say ure a sturpid fool and thats why ur man decides to be else where than with u or that ure a fool to even be with a guy taht treats u like that,?

so many women have been tricked by men that claim they are not married, and htat they always travel coz of work, obviously wen u love a person u trust, u become blinded and dnt see their tricks,u become heratbroken wen they finally come, we have all been made fools at sum point, bt its rude for u to respond like that

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Posted by: mpule | 2008/07/24

to Anon, how did you come to the conclusion the we are stupid fools? were you a stupid fool before?

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Posted by: Anon | 2008/07/24

Stupid fools............................go play somewhere else

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