Our expert says:
Yes indeed, he sounds like the perfect guy NOT to have any sort of relationship with. But many people let themselves have a relationship NOT with the awful guy he actually is, but with the terrific guy they delude themselves into thinking he will become. And of coruse he wont.
Encourage her to see a professional psychologist or counsellor to work on enhancing her self-respect, and be an encouraging friend and don;t try to be a therapist. Or otherwise just tell her, you care about her and would like to see her respect herself enough to move on, leave the loser and find someone she actually deserves ; but that its too painful to meep on meeting with her while she ignores all kind advice and insists on carrying on with someone who will repeatedly hurt her. Say you can't face continuing to be involved with her while she maintains this relationship, but weill be pleased to hear from her again when she has genuinely moved on
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