Our expert says:
He's a liar and a louse. He has been using you and deceiving you very deliberately. Yes, the situation he is in is unfair and bad, but that's no excuse for transferring the unfairness onto you. And him moving out is also a good idea, as living with you may not help him if he wants to improve his legal claims to keep the child here.
BT makes a good point about checking the terms of a possible divorce settlement, and he should also see the people at the family court / family advicate's office, and see if there can't be a condition that she cannot remove the child from this country, as what you describe amounts to blackmail.
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