Our expert says:
yes, Roy, you describe it well, and the trust usually takes longer to re-form than any other part of the problem. Counselling generally helps us to get these issues into proportion, to trust enough but neither too much or too little. And as Shaun and BT stress, trust has to be earned, thereafter, not given as a freebie. And as chris suggests maybe at first love is blind, but then one gets glassses, and then love is only short-sighted at times.
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