Our expert says:
There are two issues here, it seems: 1) your girlfriend's avoidance of her own genitals (which will possibly mean that her arousal is not far enough along & possibly also her knowledge about the sexual response (yours and hers) and 2) your 'premature ejaculation'.
This is not all your issue - your girlfriend has to do her part to understand her (and your) sexual response properly and find ways to enhance her arousal. Your part is to learn to delay your ejaculation. I just answered a question on this (Q346 by Sammy) - read my recommendations to him to address your ejaculation.
Claire – SASHA
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