Posted by: sue | 2008/12/22

First time sexual active

Hi im 28 turning 29 in 2 months, i waited to have sex till im married and got married a week ago. We had sex and it was very painfull and there were a lot of bleeding. It was sore for about 3 days without any sex. Then we tried again yesterday a week later but it was still very painfull and we didnt go thru because of the pain but still there was blood.We do use lubrication but it does seem to help! Please can you help?

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Try to ensure that you are well lubricated with lots of foreplay. It sometimes helps for the woman to be on top and to control things. You could also get your partner to try introducing one finger into the vagina and then going on to two, before having sex.

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Posted by: Ant | 2008/12/23

No, I don' t think he is too big for you!!!! You should just get the mood right, lit some candles and play soft background music, and just make it romantic  foreplay is the best medicine for no painful sex. Congratulations for still being a virgin at 28, I think you are great...just enjoy your husband now.
Good Luck!!!

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Posted by: me | 2008/12/23

it might be that he is too big for you or you are tense. You need to relax. I would suggest you go and see a dr

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