Our expert says:
It can be tempting, but is very rarely useful, to indulge in the "what if's of life", but rather to concentrate on identifying what are the most useful and valid conclusions to draw from prior events. Interesting about the early burns and long hospitalization. years back, in some of my research, I suggested that such experiences might be associated with later problems like BPD and self-damage.
And you were NOT stupid. You did the best you knew how to do, in difficult circumstances. You were not the older and wiser person you now are.
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