Our expert says:
It makes really good sense not only to get your financial mess sorted out before mariage, but to work with a counsellor so as to better understand how you managed to get into that mess, and how to avoid ever geting into one again. Hope* may well be right that he feels hurt because he sees your comments as being something about the relationship or lack of faith in or love for him, rather than as adetermination to start your marriage with him with a financially clean slate. I don't think you were wrong to raise the issue, but maybe there needs to be rather a lot more calm discussion between you two, even with the assistancwe of a relationship counsellor, to help to iron out this hitch
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