Our expert says:
THe pair of you need to sit down for a calm and serious discussion about this. He ought to pay maintenance for his child, preferably an amount decided by a maintenance court as fair, and not a variable amount depending on what his ex asks for. And if she is working, she is required to share to costs of the child, and not expect him to pay everything. But also, its not fair for him to support her ( she may not deserve the amount he ius giving her ) but to expect YOU to support him. If he won't make a proper plan and budget with you, disclosing all his income and expenditures, that's a fair enough reason to leave him.
L is right, and the others. Don't allow yourself to be used, to the detriment of your own kids
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