Our expert says:
There's no easy or abstract answer here - so much depends on the personalities and relationship of you and he, on whether this is the first time this ever happened, or whether this has been the cause of previous arguments ; on how each of you tend to deal with problems and arguments, and so on. We don't know how much money was involved, how serious this is as a threat to the family budget, what it was spent on, and so on.
So maybe other readers will have some suggestions, but you haven't told me enough to be useful. Ultimately, this sort of problem is only worked out, if ever, by calm discussions between the pair of you
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