Our expert says:
Predicting future behaviour is a tricky and inexact process, but generally the best predictor is past behaviour. A guy with two kids from 2 mothers he didn't marry, is really unlikely to become a faithful spouse. So good luck with the future of this relationship. The fact that he is apparently trying to prvide some care and medical aid for his kids is a good sign, which should be to some degree encouraging for you.
The issues you raise, including maintenance are technical and largely legal --- maybe someone at your local Maintenance COurt could advise you better on this ?
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