Our expert says:
OK, naming people is someone else's job. Frankly, though, I think developing "feelings" for someone else while in a committed relationship, is actually voluntary and not compulsory. You can avoid it developing, and even simply stop seeing the new person. Yes, some people seem to feel that some hidden section of the Constitution defines a right and even a requirement that we all sow as many wild oats as possible, but it really isn't so. it is of no actual benefit to try to do so. Even partying isn't actually compulsory. Spend as little time as possible with the other guy ( surely the pair of you have other friends as well ? ) and indeed spend as much quality and fun time with your bf as possible
Sorry for the delay in responding, but my instructions were ignored. This forum was supposed to be CLOSED to all messages throughout Thursday 21st and right through Monday 25th and only to re-open on Tuesday 26th. As my instructions were ignored I am horrified to discover a very large number of questions that should not have been possible to post, which have of course been unanswered while I was away. This makes me very angry and disappointed. I will try to respond as best I can, though very long message cannot possibly achieve full attention.
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