Our expert says:
do not feel intimidated by her use of sex toys, sex can be acted-out using any body part or item (eg: vibrator). in this sense, sex with a vibrator is the same as using a tongue to stimulate her clitoris. this does not mean that you are a terrible lover or that she does not find you attractive. but rather that the tongue is better suited to stimulate her clitoris than your penis. in this same sense, a vibrator may be able to stimulate her in places that the penis could never do on its own.
however, the use of sex aids should never replace you. if you feel like you are being side-lined in the sex ac t, communicate your feelings to her.
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