Our expert says:
I'm puzzled by why he'd feel a need to see his ex gf's mother before going on Jajj --- did he have a special and continuing relationship with the mother ? EVen if he did, what has this to do with going on Hajj ? Sending love poems to an ex is also not orthodox behaviour for the first year of a marriage. I don't think you're being paranoid for feeling uncomfortable about this, even if there's nothing sinister going on.
Excellent responses from other readers. Is there a local source of muslim oriented family counselling which you two could access ?
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