Posted by: anon-c | 2007/04/19

feeling down today

I am feeling very down today. His brother is gone a year today and tomorrow a very close will also be gone a year and I miss them both so much! With things not working out in the relationship, I miss them a hellavu lot because at least they were there to chat to. I am trying very hard not to have a breakdown or breakup before the weekend is over - do not want to spoil things for his family but something will have to give - I cannot go on being unhappy!! Life is too short to be so unhappy!! There must be someone out there that can make me laugh again!! I used to be such a happy go lucky girl now I am so miserable that it is starting to make me sick!!! I want to play with my kids again! My youngest daughter is a real joker and nowadays I don't even find her funny anymore! Thanks Guys for "listening". I should have used the forum a lot earlier - it has made it easier to get through the last few days!

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Anniversary reactions are common amongst our grief. You are right in your resolve to give up the unhappiness and to move on --- and your happiness is a far better monument to any good person we have lopst, than is misery. I am so pleased that you have ound this forum useful, and hope that it will continue to be so.

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Posted by: anon-c | 2007/04/19

Thanks CS and Echelle!
I had previously got a lot of advice from this forum that helped me get through a lot and I really appreciate every one taking the time to read and respond!!!
Thanks guys! Keep up the good work!!

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Posted by: Echelle | 2007/04/19

I don't know your story, but hope you feel better soon! Sing a happy happy song, sing a happy...

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