Our expert says:
Absolutely definitely it is NOT your fault.
Don't blame yourself for his suicide, which was something he chose to do ; and it was him who chose to cheat and to create highly complex relationship problems. It was fair enough for you to decide to break up with him on discovering about his cheating, and his suicide attempt after that was manipulative and unfair. One should not threaten or attempt suicide in order to manipulate other people. People who create chaos and hurt amongst others can reap the whirlwind they began. That sort of suicide is an act of aggression against others, like you, and not only against the person himself. If your community blamed you, then they were extremely foolish to do so.
But DO see a good local counsellor / therapist to deal with the damage this selfish man caused to you, and to prepare yourself to get beyond this and lead a normal and happier life
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