Our expert says:
You are an adult and in control of your own behaviour --- so stop treating him badly. Maybe you are in some way taking out on him, the innocent, what you didn't get round to taking out on your Ex, but you know that is unfair and unhelpful. See a counselor to sort out this inappropriate and self-defeating behaviour.
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