Our expert says:
Don't blame yourself, but rather blame the narrowminded folks who brought you up with lies about sex. Some good advice all round ( Shaun, that's at least 5c worth !). But it sounds to me as if you really deserve to see a psychologist for a proper assessment and psychotherapy, to work through all the false negative ideas about sex and sexuality with which you were indoctrinateed, to help you get free from them, and find out how to be proud of yourself and your sexuality, and how to really enjoy it. Maybe even some pre-marital relationship counselling would help, too.
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