Our expert says:
Well, at least you've discovered, in time, that he's far from cool. Indeed, it sounds like you're coping reasonably with a difficult situation, and that he is getting himself into a real mess. And distance has helped you confirm that his abusive conduct is NOT normal or acceptable. BE grateful that he IS soon to be an Ex. Go back to the Family Adv, and make it clear that he has broken the agreement not to be hostile and abusive on meeting you, and that the arrangement must revert to the prior system when someone else hands the kids over to him.
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