Posted by: Zee | 2009/01/14

Fed up at work


Happy New Year Everybody, and All The Best for 2009.

When I was appointed I was appointed as my bosses assistant and now I her skivy and I hate it. She was on leave during the Dec period she only came back today and I just broke down and cried when I saw her( I did not realise how actions affect me till today) . The thing is I can' t stand up to her my only solution is to look for another job until then I am stuck with her. How do I tell her that I am not a skivy, everytime I speak to her about it she tells me she is grooming me.

I am just praying for the strength to go on and keep quite she is a real big shot everyone listens to her and everyone knows not to cross her.

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Hi Zee,
Hope we all get the good new year we deserve. Is there an HR peson you can discuss this with, or maybe even tactfully with your boss's boss ? With any such appointment, there is supposed to be a proper job description, and it shouldn't include menial personal tasks for her. If she says that being her skivvy is "grooming you", ask : grooming you FOR WHAT ? To become someobn's maid ? Sounds more like a big head who enjoys bullying people and displaying her power over others. How pathetic

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