Our expert says:
Well, any of us who Enjoy rejection really do need to see a counsellor ! So its always unwelcome ; an issue can be whether there is anything you are doing ( which you could of course learn to change ) which causes people to act towards you in na rejecting manner ; and also wheether perhaps you have gloomy expectations of rejection, which can lead you to see and feel rejection even when its not really there and not intended by others.
It sounds as though you're a bit hasty in relationships, with perhaps rather unrealistic expectations, of yourself and of the other person. We can't get everything our way, but if NOTHING about it is our way, then its not a relationship at all. Sounds like low self-esteem could be a significant part of the puzzle.
Counselling, especially of the Cognitive-Bejhaviour Therapy ( CBT ) format, could help a lot
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