Our expert says:
You seem to be describing a couple who are mutually abusive. She is not entitled to bite scratch or otherwise hurt him, and then complain if he retailates. I agrow so weary of always having to say the same thing --- ALL that matters in this sort of situation is what is best for the children. If they love their father and he them, then he must be allowed access to them. For the mother to try to eny him acess to his children so as to get back at him, is abusive in itself.
And it sounds like a case where the issue should be explored by the wlefare auhorities ( not by naive social workers who accept only what the mother says ) and then to have a court hear from both of them and ( if the kids are old enough )mfrom the kids too, and decide what is best for the children. The people at welfare are REQUIRED to listen to all sides, and they are not entitled to be prejudiced and to only listen to or believe the mother's version of events.
And I agree with Maria --- post to the divorce forum, and check there --- the father needs legal advice to protect his rights and those of the children, and no only assume that the mother must always get what she wants
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