Posted by: hanna | 2009/02/07

fast ejaculation

my husband havig a problem of fast ejaculation, he is unable to hold back for not more than one minute soon after penetration pl advice is erection is quite good.

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Dear Hanna,

Premature ejacualtion is the most common sexual problem experienced by men. I wrote a detailed description on the psychosexual treatment of premature ejaculation in a previous post in this week, the 3rd or the 4th I think. Pleas read it, it will give you an overview of the treatment process.

It is often advisable that a couple consider seeing a sex therapist to assist them in this process.

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Posted by: Bev | 2009/02/09

You guys seem to have the oppisite problem to us. My man takes long to come. Sometimes it' s nice that way but other times I' m ready to come + he isn' t. When it' s like that then I contract my vaginal muscles as hard as I can + the same time I fondle + tickle his balls. No matter what, he can' t last long b4 he comes + then his orgasm is more intense than normal.

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Posted by: Marathan Girl | 2009/02/09

In Tantra we learn that satisfying sex must not be goal orientated + that you must " live the moment" . In other words hubby must not think of ejaculation/orgasm when he enters U. During foreplay he must also not think of actual intercourse - it will make him too excited + he may loose control  he should concentrate on pleasing U + live that moment. It takes a lot of practice but with love + understanding on your part he will succeed providing there is no medical prob. Being anxious about performing is also a big negative factor. Deep breathing by the man also helps a lot - breathe in deeply + exhale very slowly - relaxes him. Good luck

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Posted by: sanjay | 2009/02/08

i am 45 years.i am suffering from premature ejaculation which takes few seconds

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