Our expert says:
Playing out one's fantasy as you and your husband have done can evoke powerful feelings within one but it is important that one does not jump to conclusions as a result. It may be a good idea to have an honest discussion with him about the feelings that have arisen in you and that you are struggling with. It is also so important to be aware of the risks involved when having sex with concurrent partners especially sexually transmitted diseases.
Some couples do include other sexual partners, but both partners need to be clear about whether they are happy to go through with it, and also define clear 'rules' of engagement - i.e. what is and isn't okay for him and her to do? It's not for everyone and feelings like this are probably one of the powerful reasons why many don't do threesomes...
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