Our expert says:
Yes, it's sad that your parents handled their own finances so badly, without apparently taking responsibility for their own decisions, and that they seem to have assumed that you must always pay to sort things out for them. And why do they kep running into debt ? Why can't they live within their means ? What on earth is she spending on, to keep needing more ? YOu did right to tell her that you are no longer an Automatic Teller for her --- and that she got your sister to phone and tyell you she was crying, is sheer shameless blackmail. Do NOT allow her to make you feel bad --- she should be ashamed at being so ungrateful. And tell her immediately to cancel the baby shower, which you do not need. It is your PARENT'S task to organize their finances, not yours.
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