Our expert says:
Given that you have a good relationship with your partner's mother I think it would be a good idea to chat to her again. On this occasion I think it would be important to speak about how you feel it is affecting you and also how you feel it is affecting your relationship with your boyfriend. You also need to speak to him and let him know how you feel. I am sure from your boyfriends point of view its great having his mom around to help - but that does not mean that he should shirk his responsibilities as a father.
I also think that some of these issues will sort themselves out by default when you move into your own place, so its certainly not worth going all-out and having major arguments with everyone around you.
Another consideration is that if your relationship with your boyfriend is struggling then maybe going for couples counselling would help. There are counselling services that offer this service, as do some churches/mosques.
Remember that while there are problems you have a lot of good things in your life, and these strengths can assist in sorting out the problems.
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