Our expert says:
Obviously, he not only chose a rotten way to teach anyone "responsibility", but in his stupidity and cruelty, he modelled and demonstrated irresponsibility.
It must have been very difficult for you, but from the sound of it, you lost nothing in losing contact with such a biased and limited person.
Congratulations on all that you have succeeded in achieving. Nobody has any reason for blaming you ( and you have no reason to blame yourself )for the choices you have made about contacting your sibs. They sound careless and uncaring.
I see no good reason why you should spend a single cent on food or anything else for this bunch of lazy people who can't be bothered to work and support themselves. NEVER give them money - they don't deserve it at all.
Interesting that they can't remember to call you for your birthday, but can remember to call when they want money
Only your own innate goodness makes you feel as though you miss them, as they seem to havwe contributed nothing to your life worth missing.
Leave them behind in your dust, stop looking over your shoulder, and work on developing your own life, with the aid of a counsellor if necessary.
Don't fear that buy ignoring these greedy and lazy sibs you are echoing your father's behaviour, as it is a very different thing to decide to stop sacrificing your own interests to reward them for being idle and greedy.
I hope your heart will soon catch up with your head and recognize how right your recent decisions have been. Congratulations.
I fully agree with Maria that they are only a bunch of ATM robbers. Continue to build a great life for yourself and yopur child - you richly deserve that
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