Our expert says:
Sorry, but this situation is not one where a psychiatrist's expertise will help --- I hope that other readers can have some useful comments. It sounds like you're geting yourself into a very dicey situation, with needles risk. Does he perhaps urgently need a SA wife to get a permit to stay and work here ?
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