Our expert says:
Let's see what other readers think, here. Its understandable that your fiancee is uncomfortable about you seeing more of your Ex, but she ought to understand when this is in connection with your child, and should appreciate that it is a good thing when a man remains faithful and caring towards his child. It sounds as though she may have the wrong idea about what a counsellor does --- it's not about who owns the problem, or who should be blamed, but a way of finding a solution for both of you. As it is SHE who is upset about your seeing your ex, the problem is hers, even if she blames you for it, and thus exactly the sort of thing that can best be worked out with a counsellor's help.
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