Our expert says:
TNT, isn't it about time that your fiancee lade it extremely and explicitly clear to this girl that she is his EX, and that their relationship will never, under any circumstances, be revived ; and that he is now engaged, to you, and happy without her. He can wish her a happy life, but insist that she needs, with the aid of counselling if necessary, to start a life of her own and to stop calling him and depending on him ?
And thereafter, maybe change your/his telephone and cell-phone numbers so she cannot reach him ? I simply don't believe that when an adult refuses to behave like an adult, and to demand the right to hang around the neck of someone with whom they once had a relationship, that they deserve to be humoured and encouraged --- they dont.
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