Our expert says:
I'm sorry, but I really can't undertand how anyone can een imagine that they have any chance of a stable, happy and lasting relationship with someone such as you describe who has 4 children by 4 other women. Or is it 6 with 6 ?
This is such an immature, selfish and irresponsible kid that he seems to think his main role in life is to impregnant as many women as possible. Clearly he is incapable of understanding the simple process fo contraception, or the proper responsibility of a father to his children, or of proper respect for women.
Promises to have "changed" are worthless and almost meaningless, and problem just a tactic. His history proves that he does not change, and probably does not want to change. Why should he ? I hope all 4 mothers ( or is it now 5, or 6 ? or more ? ) have taken him to the maintenance court so the court can require him to pay proper maintenance for all his children - that is essential for the safety of the children, and so that he can learn the cost of his bad habits.
What on earth do you find to love about someone who behaves like this and is so likely to always cheat on you and accumulate more and more neglected kids and baby mamas ?
If he can afford to pay proper maintenance for all these kids, what marvellous job does he have ? As he obviously does not care enough about women to use condoms, what protection do you have for any disease / infection he may already have or pick up at any time ?
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