Our expert says:
He is using you, in a way, thinking selfishly only of his own feelings, and ignoring yours. His go to person should be his fiance ( if she isn't, for some good reason, then she shouldn't be his fiancee ) Or he should go to a counsellor
The French have a saying that a door should be either open or shut. Either he's an Ex and should respect you and leave you alone, or he is in a current genuine relationship with you, and shouldn't have a fiancee !
Tell him to speak to his fiancee and to stop contacting you, and if possible, change your numbers and stop accepting his calls or messages. To use another old saying, he's trying to have his cake and to eat it, too.
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