Our expert says:
We seem to be Vent City this week ! Maybe his negativity ( which isn't fair to you at all ) is his way of cping with possible disappointment, if the endeavours to have a child don't work out ? Some people think that if they remain negative and expect the worst, then they won't be disappointed if things don't work out, and that they can feel fine and happy if they DO work out. And also, whatever the doctorsd may have said, some men feel vulnerable and ashamed if they can't produce a pregnancy, whatever the actual cause of the problem.
And as Maria says, being under so much stress will reduce your fertility ( his own stress might have a similar effect on him ) and is worth dealing with in its own right.
The marriage counselling is likely to be really helpful for both of you, pity it wasn't available earlier.
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