Our expert says:
It does sound extremely mean and vicious for anyone else to NOW spread nasty stories about the husband now that he is dead --- it can in no way be of benefit, and can only hurt the widow needlessly --- whether indeed the stories are true or not. Can you perhaps speak to some of these "friends" and tell them to stop doing this as it only hurts her ? They may have the stupid but not uncommon idea that it would somehow help her grief to hear that he was a bad guy, as if she'd then decide he was no loss, and stop hurting. Of course nothing like that will happen.
This is yet another clear example of how people who commit suicide can cause terrible suffering to the people they love, without realizing it or intending to do so.
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