Our expert says:
Stalkers should not be tolerated --- stalking is about obsession, not about love, and he should cojnsider going to court to get a restraining order against her, and, if she is effectively troubling you as well, you should join him in seking that order, forbidding her from contacting either of you. And her overdose was blackmail, also not deserving to be respected, though of course needing to be taken seriously from a medical point of view. The fact that she SMS's everyone shows how irresponsibly manipulative she was. Again, this is not about love, but about her demanding that everyo ne must do exactly what she wants.
While in hospital she should have been seen by a psychiatrist, who should have been told about her bad behaviour, and her father should arrange for that right now. Change your cell numbers so she canot SMS or call any of you. So not respond to any of her mesages.
Get the interdict --- whether or no she harms herself manipulatively is HER responsibility, not yours.
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