Our expert says:
As you've noticed, logic has very little to do with relationships. Have you tried calling POWA or WAWA, to discuss it with their counsellors experienced in such situations ? And at least stop allowing him into your place when he's drunk, and tell him he will enver be welcome while drunk. He sounds unlikely to change unless he sincerely takes pat in some major counselling, and I doubt thether he would do so.
As for you --- get thee to a counsellor rapidly, and work towards setting yourself free from this and any similar relationships, repair your self-esteem, and prepare to relate to those you deserve to have in your life
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