Our expert says:
That sounds like an appallingly underhand and cruel thing for your Dad to do, knowing as he must, how much that would hurt you. One could say that as an adult he was free to make his own decisions as to who he befriends --- but that would be so within his own house, not to bring someone he knew you could not abide, into your house, secretly and without your knowledge or permission.
There's nothing whatsoever childish about your feeling outraged and deeply hurt by this dishonest and callous behaviour on his part. It hardly sounds likely that they will have a happy or lasting relationship, but that's now up to them.
I wonder how your husband feels about this ? Surely it should help to end any feelings he might have had left for her, knowing that she has chosen to marry another man after sneaking round your home ? And when next she wants to phone him for advice, can't he know just say "Ask your new husband" ?
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