Our expert says:
Stress and work load is often overwhelming and a passion killer in a relationship. Furthermore people tend to deal with it differently. What I am hearing is the need for sex but also attention and closeness. The avoidance of sex often leads to the absence of sexual intimacy without sex as well leaving one of both of the partners more frustrated and with the feeling of not being loved. I would strongly suggest that you and your partner seek the professional assistance and guidance from a psychologist that can guide the two of your to reach a common ground and explore ways to have both your needs addressed in a mutual satisfying manner. By the sound of it you are both overwhelmed with all the pressures and not knowing how to accommodate the different needs of both. You need a fresh look and safe space to express your frustrations with each other and find a way out of this trap you currently find yourself in.
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