Our expert says:
Its not uncommon for divorced or separated parents to run according to different rules, and you are right to recognize that within limits, this is to be expected and accepted. But your concern here seems to be that your ex is allowing his new gf to change his rules to strict rules that border on the abusive. Discuss this with the court which decided on custody / visitation issues or your local family advicate and see whether in the light of these NEW circumstances and the children's unhappiness, the rules could be changed --- the court is supposed to attend purely to the children's best interests and not to the wishes of their father's new gf
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