Our expert says:
Ageing and Sexuality expert
I am sorry for this suffering you two are going through. You need better medical management than you are presently receiving. First of all vasectomy does not cause ED. Your husband really needs to prioritise an examination with a urologist. ED is often times a symptom of an underlying cardiovascular disease. ED can happen when couples are trying to conceive- it is a very stressful time and ED is a common response to this ovulatory sex.
I understand that the side effects of the three PDE5I can be awful for some men. This too can be managed by your health care provider - and if they do not work there is injection therapy which most definitely does work. I agree with you - conceiving naturally by having a lot of sex seems to feel more satisfying for couples. Please send your husband to a urologist and start this process of better management.
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