Our expert says:
Sorry to hear about this S. Even though it always has, essentially, to be HIS task to get this right, it is unpleasant and worrying for anyone who loves him. Sounds like he may be finding it difficult to remember that even if he has some beef against the mother, the child is innocent and deserves his affection and love. Don't plan a delivberately gloomy Christmas, though of course its vbery understandable that you don't fel very Ho Ho Ho this year. It sounds like you've done so much for him, and maybe he needs to up his game and do a lot more for himself and his child. It also sounds as though, very undersstandably, you have become depressed, and you probably deserve to see a good local shrink or at least good GP for assessment of this, as, if you have become Depressed, meds and CBT counselling could help you to feel much better and to be much more effective, than this
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