Our expert says:
Sorry, but it's really hard to read and keep track of such very very long questions -- and you know, you should find the exercise of summarizing the problem a useful process in itself.
I wonder why he has changed so markedly, apparently over a relatively short period of time ? What else may have been changing in his life ? I wonder, too, why you would want to stay with a guy who treats you in the way you describe. Why does he kep THREATENING you ?
Its unfortunate of the debts are all in your name ( I wonder why you agreed to that ) --- but if the furniture or whatever it is is in your name, he can surely no take it ? Sounds like you need a good legal opinion, to be sure of your rights and liabilities. But you are describing a man who is being abusive, and should also call POWA to discuss this. And legally, he will not be allowed to evade his financial responsibilities for the pregnancy and the child --- talk with the folks at the Maintenance Court at your magistrate's court. It is NOT his choice whether to pay his share of the upkeep of his child ( and his greater earnings in relation to yours would be taken into account here ).
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