Our expert says:
So many couples experience this problem. Men feel emotionally connected when they have sex and women need to feel emotionally connected to open herself up to having sex! We are wired differently. Go to the SASHA website - www.sexualhealth.co.za and click on "Sex Therapy" then click on the "Relationship Exercises" at the top of the page. Doing these together can help you discover how to best meet each others needs. If you neglect this, a cycle of 'distance' will continue which can negatively affect your long term relationship.
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