Our expert says:
Change your home phone number, and if possible, any other number on which she is phoning you. If she persists, ask your Husband to go to the court and get a restraining order against her, to forbid her to contact EITHER of you in any way or to come within x many metres of you. If he won't join you in this, surely that would be very suspicious ?
As for your response to JUlie's coment, gee, if problems only related to occasions when there was mutual attraction ! --- the fact that she imagines there coulod be something with him, doesn't have to be based on any interest on his part. What of the nuts who adore Michael Jackson or Madonna, though they've never met him and he/she has never heard of them ?
It is a good idea for you to confront her jointly, and this doesn't need to be done at work. It almost sounds as if she is blackmailing him by promising to create a scene at work if he doesn't put up with her. That's where a court order ( obtained out of the office ) could be useful. If she works direct6ly with him, then this is a form of sexual harrassment of him by her, and he should invoke the relevant legislation and discuss this with his seniors, to have her disciplined at work and redeployed so she doesn't need to be in contact with him. And he sounds as if he's being very naive here --- it's not simply an issue of trusting him, but of not trusting her.
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