Our expert says:
I understand that this would be disappointing for you --- you seem to be describing his personality, and the way he has presumably been for the 18 years, rather than a very recent chenge in him. Couldn't you persuade him to join you in marriage counselling, eg through FAMSA ? Its something you;'d need to work on together, as its not simply a matter of YOu changing your behaviour, as you suggest, but of him also changing his, and moving towards a compromise that suits both of you better
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