Our expert says:
Its downright peculiar. Everyone sensible knows that such physical punishment is useless and potentially harmful, to both the person performing it and the person receiving it, and it never solves any problems at all. And it is not a boyfriend's right to punish you if he doesn't like something you did. This is abuse, and I would indeed be concerned, and wonder why you'd want to stay with someone with such a kinky approach to interpersonal relations. That you wouldn't tell anyone shows that you knew for sure that it was wrong.
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