Our expert says:
Some people insist on declaring any ocurrence which calls any aspect of their own responsibility or behaviour into question, as "an argument" and something they insist must be avoided. You seem to be describing a problem drinker with major problems with Denial, but with obsessive traits. There's always more to anyone than meets the eye. The problem is that while such a person denies the existence of any problems, and refuses to address them, they just cannot be helped with them. Someone maried to them or otherwise engaged with them, needs either to leave them, or to stay with them, assuming that nothing will change, but remaining vigilant for any opportunities when the person may become open to recognjzing that there are problems and a need for help.
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