Our expert says:
Frankly, find the patern of his behaviour which you describe to be suspicious, too. If he works with her, he would have no need whatever to call her at night or out of work hours, just to say "HI" And if he had such a pathetic need to keep in touch with workmates, why doesn't he phone all the others at work, to say "hi" to them too ?
Changing the phone he uses, is deply suspicious, and suggests he has something to hide. If his relationship with her IS entirely innocent, and you are just being "super suspicious", then he wouldn't continue these frivolous out-of-work contacts with the woman, while trying to hide them from you --- he's simply give them up altogether, because they wouldn't be of any real importance to him.
Consider marriage counselling, and consider getting a good legal opinion, to protect your rights and interests, and make it clear to him that his ongoing behaviour is far too suspicious to be excused without concluding that he is up to something that is unfair to you.
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