Our expert says:
I wonder why he is so eager to be married, when he doesn't seem to respect the bases of marriage. Maybe he's a changed man, maybe he's simulating the degree of change to as to get what he wants.
How many chances does he deserve ? He cheated you at least twice, and after these last chances, was apparently still prepared to cheat. And presumably something similar went wrong with the second marriage. This is not a question of giving him a second chance - he;s had several of those. Giving extra chances to someone whose behaviour is essentially selfish and thoughtless doesn't usually solve any problems.
He cheated on your kids, too, but they don't know that.
He can still, with a properly worked out agreement with you, have access to spend some time with the kids, without re-marrying you.
ou have proof he has unprotected sex with other women, which risks your health and life.
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