Our expert says:
I'm a bit worried about a lass who thinks she needs time off, but wants to borrow R 450 first, then keeps contacting you. And while the original incident may have been annoying, I don't see how it should have broken anyone's heart, which sounds over-dramatising it. I would also be worrying about whether she is indeed using you at this stage, as you have been so subservient towards her. I really don't think you should giveup good job opportunities anywhere in the world just because she has put you on hold. It really sounds as if you are being so grovelling that she may be tempted to abuse this situation. She's not the only woman in the world.
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